The Cost of Discipleship

mckellarboxRecently I heard a story shared by one of the African Bishops who attended the Synod on ‘The New Evangelization.’ In this bishop’s diocese there was a maximum security prison. He decided that he should visit this prison to minister to any Catholics who might be there. The prison was underground and had no windows. The bishop journeyed deeper and deeper into the darkness of the prison before he eventually heard some singing and he was taken to a lighted room with a number of prisoners in it. The bishop became angry when he saw how many men were in the room and he confronted them asking, “Please tell me why so many Catholics are here in this prison for serious criminals?” Pointing to one of the prisoners, the other men replied, “Bishop, not one of us was Catholic before we met this man. We were so struck by his peace here in the prison that we all wanted to be like him. We are following him.”

In today’s Gospel reading Jesus challenges the great crowds that are following him to take stock of the cost of his discipleship. Jesus says, “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple” (Luke 14:26). Jesus is not literally telling us to hate our families but warning us that Jesus must be our first love. If there is a conflict between loving Christ and respecting or honoring our family, the cost of discipleship is to renounce our family for the sake of the kingdom. Jesus continues, “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple” (Luke 14:27). Being a disciple comes with a cost. We must be willing to suffer. Notice the two aspects of discipleship highlighted in these verses. Jesus says. “If anyone comes to me. . .” and then in the next verse he says, “come after me.” Our faith is both a beginning and an ongoing journey. Our modern culture, which is perhaps influenced by certain types of Protestantism, tends to focus only on the initial decision or the ‘altar call.’ If the focus is only on the beginning, then we will fail to grow and continue the work of conversion than God has started in our heart.

During the Nazi occupation of Germany, the German Lutheran pastor, Dietrich Bonhoeffer complained against those who professed faith in Christ but allowed the Nazis to control the German State Church and to commit atrocities against the Jews. He helped found a dissident free ‘Confessing Church’ and eventually was executed in a concentration camp for his views. Bonhoeffer believed that our faith should impact the Christian’s role in the secular world. He called the separation of faith and living, “cheap grace.” In 1937 Bonhoeffer wrote, “Cheap grace is the mortal enemy of our church. Our struggle today is for costly grace” (The Cost of Discipleship). Have we committed ourselves to intentionally following Jesus?

The Fathers of the Second Vatican Council noted a similar problem at the time of the council. They complain about the error of those, “who imagine they can plunge themselves into earthly affairs in such a way as to imply that these are altogether divorced from the religious life. This split between the faith which many profess and their daily lives deserves to be counted among the more serious errors of our age” (GS 43).

In this Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus is calling us to live one unified life in him. We must not have a separate family, political or business life and a private religious life. We must follow after him completely even if it is a costly call of discipleship. Jesus gives two illustrations on counting this cost and then he concludes, “In the same way, anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.”

Once again this is not a call to hate our family, or to despise the world and all earthly possessions. The cost of discipleship is a daily endeavor, it means keeping Jesus at the center of our world. One traditional practice for this spiritual accounting is the examination of conscience. St. Ignatius of Loyola proposed a method involving five simple steps. First, begin by making an act of thanksgiving (Luke 17:15-16a). Next, pray and ask God for the grace to know ourselves and to have the courage to correct our faults. Thirdly, take a few minutes to review the hours of our day noting our faults in thought, word, deeds and omissions. Fourth, pray and ask God’s pardon for our sins. Finally make a resolution to improve ourselves in some small point of struggle during the next day (Spiritual Exercises, 43).

Scott McKellar is Director of the Bishop Helmsing Institute for the Diocese of Kansas City – St. Joseph.


Daily Scripture Readings

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Monday, September 9
Colossians 1:24–2:3
Psalms 62:6-7, 9
Luke 6:6-11

Tuesday, September 10
Colossians 2:6-15
Psalms 145:1b-2, 8-9, 10-11
Luke 6:12-19

Wednesday, September 11
Colossians 3:1-11
Psalms 145:2-3, 10-11, 12-13ab
Luke 6:20-26

Thursday, September 12
Colossians 3:12-17
Psalms 150:1b-2, 3-4, 5-6
Luke 6:27-38

Friday, September 13
1 Timothy 1:1-2, 12-14
Psalms 16:1b-2a and 5, 7-8, 11
Luke 6:39-42

Feast of the Exhaltation of the Holy Cross
Saturday, September 14

Numbers 21:4b-9
Psalms 78:1bc-2, 34-35, 36-37, 38
Philippians 2:6-11
John 3:13-17

Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, September 15
Exodus 32:7-11, 13-14
Psalms 51:3-4, 12-13, 17, 19
1 Timothy 1:12-17
Luke 15:1-32

Monday, September 16
1 Timothy 2:1-8
Psalms 28:2, 7, 8-9
Luke 7:1-10

Tuesday, September 17
1 Timothy 3:1-13
Psalms 101:1b-2ab, 2cd-3ab, 5, 6
Luke 7:11-17

Wednesday, September 18
1 Timothy 3:14-16
Psalms 111:1-2, 3-4, 5-6
Luke 7:31-35

Thursday, September 19
1 Timothy 4:12-16
Psalms 111:7-8, 9, 10
Luke 7:36-50

Friday, September 20
1 Timothy 6:2C-12
Psalms 49:6-7, 8-10, 17-18, 19-20
Luke 8:1-3

Saturday, September 21
Ephesians 4:1-7, 11-13
Psalms 19:2-3, 4-5
Matthew 9:9-13

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  1. November 11, 2013 at 3:12 pm #

    Yes, the cost of discipleship is everything. But I think the King’s War Plan’s parable helps us to understand what Jesus is getting at. We don’t have what it takes. Jesus does. However, we are called to send a delegation to the King while he is far off and ask
    the king for his terms of peace. His terms of peace are to be repentant
    Please see:

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November 26, 2020
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